A 17-year-old boy from an influential family ran over and killed a man with his Mercedes. His parents initially denied his involvement, shielding him due to his minor status. Further investigations revealed he was a repeat traffic offender, enabled by his parents’ leniency.
Similarly, in a notorious murder case at a well- known school, the parents of the accused 16-year-old boy defended him, despite evidence of guilt. Their refusal to accept his actions delayed justice for the victim’s family.
This denial, while coming from a place of love, can have unintended consequences.
As educators, we witness children at their best and their most challenging moments. Yet, one of the hardest aspects of our role is addressing concerning behaviours with parents who refuse to believe their child could be in the wrong.
As educators, we witness children at their best and their most challenging moments. Yet, one of the hardest aspects of our role is addressing concerning behaviours with parents who refuse to believe their child could be in the wrong.
When parents dismiss feedback with statements like, “How dare you say this about my child?” or “It’s impossible for my child to do this!” It fosters a mindset in children where
they believe they can escape consequences. Instead, let’s ask, “How can we address this together?”
Schools and parents share a mission: nurturing kind, capable, and responsible individuals. Trust us to be on the same team. Let’s work hand in hand to ensure children take accountability and grow into their best selves.
A child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth.” – African Proverb
Together, as a village, we can help every child soar higher
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